Developing a Growth Mindset in Your 50s and Beyond
How to develop a genuine growth mindset in your 50s and beyond — what the neuroscience says and how to apply it to major life transitions.

How to develop a genuine growth mindset in your 50s and beyond — what the neuroscience says and how to apply it to major life transitions.

The first 90 days abroad are almost always different from what you imagined — sometimes better, sometimes harder, usually both, rarely as straightforwardly exciting as the planning phase led you to believe. Understanding what this period typically looks like, and what the most common navigation mist…

One of the most practically underestimated aspects of living abroad is managing the US address and mail infrastructure that continues to require attention long after you’ve left. Financial institutions, government agencies, insurance companies, healthcare providers, and a dozen other entities regula…

Almost everyone who has lived abroad for a meaningful period describes a similar psychological arc — an initial period of exhilaration followed by a more difficult middle period, followed eventually by a more nuanced, integrated sense of belonging that is different from both the honeymoon phase and …

Loneliness and solitude are experiences that feel related but are fundamentally different, and conflating them produces responses that address the wrong problem. Solitude — the experience of being alone that is chosen, satisfying, and restorative — is one of the significant pleasures available to pe…

Gray divorce — the dissolution of long-term marriages among people over 50 — has doubled in the United States over the past three decades, even as overall divorce rates have declined. People are living longer, maintaining stronger individual identities through midlife, and increasingly concluding th…

A situationship — a romantic connection that provides emotional intimacy, companionship, and often physical closeness without the formal structure of a committed partnership — is no longer primarily the territory of twenty-somethings avoiding commitment. Among people over 50, situationships have bec…

What if you didn’t have to work for money? What if you could choose how to spend your time — on your terms, on your schedule — because you’d built enough wealth to generate income without a paycheck?

Insurance exists to protect against financial losses too large to absorb on your own. It’s not exciting, it’s not an investment, and it’s easy to get wrong in both directions — being underinsured and exposed to catastrophic risk, or overinsured and paying for coverage that doesn’t meaningfully impro

Buying a home is the largest financial transaction most people ever make. Get it right, and it builds equity and stability over decades. Get it wrong — buying too much house, taking a bad loan, or buying before you’re financially ready — and it can strain your finances for years.

Most budgets fail — not because people aren’t trying, but because the budget itself was set up for failure. Too restrictive. Too complicated. Built on optimistic assumptions about how little you’ll actually spend on groceries or going out.

The average adult in the United States now spends over 7 hours per day looking at screens. Smartphones check in at 4–5 hours of that total, with the average person picking up their phone over 150 times per day. If that number doesn’t alarm you, consider what it displaces: sleep, face-to-face convers